Our Prophet (saas) had an elevated love of women. His moral values were the greatest kindness, moderation, respect and gentleness. He reflected this very well in his wives. In terms of language, he approached them with love of Allah. He showed them deep respect.
“Do people imagine that they will be left to say, ‘We believe,’ and will not be tested? One says he has faith and he loves Allah, and that is very good. Allah says He will test us. With diseases, problems, troubles, difficulties and everything that earthly passions desire. “We tested those before them;” Allah says I have tested the whole world, not just you alone. A great test has been going on since the Prophet Adam (as). “so that Allah would know the truthful and would know the liars.” Allah says He knows who is truthful and who is a liar. Because Allah creates both speaking the truth and the liar’s telling lies. They are all under the control of Allah. “Or do those who do bad actions imagine they can outstrip Us? How bad their judgement is!”Allah says He knows them all, because He creates them.“As for those who look forward to meeting Allah, Allah’s appointed time is certainly coming. He is the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing.” Allah says one will see this suddenly when he wakes, when he suddenly sees that life is eternal. But if this were revealed before, the whole point of the test would be annulled. In that case, Hazrat Abu Bakr (as) and Abu Jahil would be the same. The vilest person would be the same as the highest person. So nothing is made explicit in the test. Allah produces no explicit miracles, so that the need for free will should not be eliminated. “Whoever struggles,” whoever strives, “does it entirely for himself. Allah is Rich Beyond Need of any being. "Allah will do what He says whether we strive for that end or not. Nothing will change. That is what Allah is saying, insha’Allah. “he said, ‘I have only been given it because of knowledge I have.’ Did he not know that before him Allah had destroyed generations with far greater strength than his and far more possessions? In other words, I have brought down many States and nations and destroyed them, says Allah. "The evildoers will not be questioned about their sins.” Allah does not ask, it is clear and explicit. There is nothing they will be able to deny. I will give them what they deserve, Allah says.